ADHD TREATMENT | AGE 16+
Understanding why ADHD affects your life can be an important first step. Treatment is about what comes next.
Practical ADHD Treatment for the Challenges That Get in the Way
The ADHD Incubator includes two structured 12-week treatment programs that combine practical ADHD education with individual psychotherapy. Each program gives you opportunities to learn strategies, put them into practice, and discuss what is working or getting in the way.
Choose the program that best reflects what you want to work on: Emotional Regulation or Habits. A formal ADHD diagnosis isn't required.
Online ADHD Treatment Available Across Ontario
Both programs combine online educational lessons with individual virtual psychotherapy sessions, allowing eligible participants throughout Ontario to take part from home.
Not sure which program fits? Book a free phone consultation
You Know What to Do. Doing It Is the Hard Part.
ADHD TREATMENT THAT GOES BEYOND KNOWING WHAT TO DO
ADHD can make it difficult to put what you know into practice. You may understand what would help, but emotions, overwhelm, procrastination or difficulty getting started can still get in the way.
Emotional Regulation Program
When frustration, anxiety, anger or overwhelm takes over, it can be difficult to pause and choose how to respond. This program focuses on understanding emotional reactions and building practical strategies for managing them.
Habits Program
Knowing what needs to get done does not always make it easier to start or follow through. This program focuses on procrastination, task initiation, planning, organization and building routines that are easier to maintain.
Knowing what to do is important. Learning how to put it into practice, with individual support along the way, is where treatment can help.
ADHD TREATMENT EXPLAINED
What Actually Helps With ADHD?
Dr. Nicole Murray explains why ADHD treatment often involves more than one approach, and how structured education, practical strategies, and individual psychotherapy can work together to support everyday functioning.
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What actually helps when it comes to ADHD treatment?
My philosophy on ADHD treatment, and really on any kind of treatment, is that it takes two to tango.
There has been a lot of discussion around ADHD treatment and what the best treatment is. There are apps, coaches, therapists and all kinds of options. There are many things that can work, but I think one of the most important factors is taking a multifaceted approach.
I tell my patients that you have to do what is best for you. Some people do not want to take medication and prefer behavioral intervention alone. Behavioral interventions can help create structure around symptoms that are difficult to manage.
But we also have to think about the end goal of treatment. ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder. It can have ebbs and flows. Symptoms may be more pronounced in certain areas of your life and less pronounced in others. It is something that you learn to work with and manage.
There are different ways people talk about ADHD. Some people describe ADHD as a superpower, while others describe it as debilitating. I tend to fall somewhere in the middle. There can be strengths associated with ADHD, but there can also be consequences. ADHD can impair your life when it is not managed. You can find yourself falling into the same traps repeatedly, and over time that can affect your self-esteem and quality of life.
Medication and behavioral strategies
When people tell me they are just going to take medication, I often think about something a very skilled psychiatrist once told me: “Pills don't teach skills.”
My philosophy is that pharmaceutical intervention and behavioral intervention can work together. When you combine these approaches, you are addressing ADHD from more than one direction.
Behavioral intervention itself can also be multifaceted. One of the challenges with completely unstructured one-on-one therapy is that clinicians naturally want to help with whatever is most pressing in the moment. If something significant happened that week, that can easily become the focus of the session.
That may feel helpful in the moment, but the person can leave without actually developing the tools they originally came to treatment to build.
Why structure matters
That is why we moved away from purely unstructured one-on-one ADHD treatment and toward a more structured, protocol-driven approach.
We want to make sure people first develop the tools they need and learn how to approach the things they are having difficulty with. There can still be room to talk about what is happening in someone's life, but we do not want the development of practical skills to get lost along the way.
We also recognized that people do not always have a lot of time, so part of the treatment became asynchronous. Educational material can be completed through video on your own time.
The challenge, of course, is that ADHD and an open-ended task without a deadline do not always work particularly well together. That is one of the reasons we developed a hybrid approach.
How DRCCH's ADHD treatment approach works
Our hybrid approach combines structured educational material with individual support and accountability.
The individual sessions are not only about accountability. They also give us an opportunity to take strategies that are supported by research and adapt them to the person we are working with.
For example, someone might learn about a strategy such as the Pomodoro method, where you work for a set period and then take a short break. But the standard version of that strategy may not work for everyone.
So the question becomes: How do we adapt this strategy in a way that you will actually use and that can actually work for you?
The strategies themselves are not necessarily complicated or mysterious. Many are evidence-based strategies that people could read about themselves. The goal of treatment is to provide support in actually using those tools, including figuring out how to use them when you initially think a particular strategy will not work for you.
Someone may tell us, “That doesn't work for me.” Our job is to help explore why and determine whether the strategy can be adjusted. We can try something different and continue working together rather than simply giving up on the strategy or the person.
Your participation matters
One of the most important things to understand about ADHD treatment is that you have to participate.
Treatment is not simply something you complete so that you can get it over with. You have to be open to looking at your own patterns and developing greater awareness of what is happening.
One of the challenges with ADHD is that you may not always recognize those patterns while they are happening. You can operate almost automatically, putting out whatever fire is directly in front of you. That is often where the same traps occur.
Once you become aware of those traps, you have an opportunity to ask: What are we going to do about them?
Progress is not always a straight line
People will often tell me, “I tried this and it worked for a little while, but then it stopped working.”
That's part of being human.
I would love for treatment progress to be a straight line upward, but that is generally not what it looks like. Progress has ups and downs.
The important part is continuing to put forth effort, staying aware of your patterns, trying the interventions, recognizing what is working and what is not, and getting back to the strategies when things do not go as planned.
ADHD treatment itself is not going to cure you. It is a collaborative approach. We are here to support, not fix.
DRCCH's ADHD treatment programs
At Durham Region Centre for Cognitive Health, we have different ADHD treatment programs.
One focuses on Emotional Regulation, which addresses the emotional regulation challenges that can be associated with ADHD.
Another focuses on Healthy Habits & Routines, including getting stuck, difficulty following through, procrastination, habit formation and goal setting.
People sometimes ask me which one I recommend starting with. I recommend starting with the area that is causing you the most difficulty. You can then consider the other program afterward, or you may find that one program gives you insight and strategies that help in other areas as well.
If you are interested in learning more about our ADHD treatment programs, please give us a call or send us an email. We're happy to talk with you about it.
A STRUCTURED APPROACH TO ADHD TREATMENT
Learn. Apply. Get Support. Repeat.
Each ADHD Incubator program follows a structured 12-week format that alternates between practical ADHD education and individual psychotherapy.
One week, you complete an educational lesson and put the strategies into practice. The following week, you meet individually with your psychotherapist to discuss what worked, what got in the way, and how the strategies can be adapted to your needs.
What’s Included in the ADHD Incubator
Our ADHD education helps you understand common challenges and introduces practical strategies you can try in everyday life.
6 Educational Video Lessons
You’ll meet one-on-one with your psychotherapist to address challenges, adapt strategies to your needs, and get support as you put them into practice.
6 Individual Psychotherapy Sessions
You’ll learn practical strategies for common ADHD challenges and have opportunities to practice using them in daily life.
Practical ADHD Strategies
In your individual sessions, you can work through what isn’t working, adjust your strategies, and get ongoing support as you build new skills.
Personalized Support & Accountability
IS THE ADHD INCUBATOR RIGHT FOR YOU?
The ADHD Incubator May Be a Good Fit If You…
Understanding your challenges is one thing. Building consistency around them is another.
Know the Strategies, But Struggle to Use Them
You know what could help, but it’s hard to use these strategies regularly in your daily life.
Have Trouble Following Through
You may know what you need to do, but getting started or following through consistently can still be difficult.
Strategies Don’t Seem to Stick
You may benefit from support to understand what is getting in the way and adjust strategies to better fit your needs.
Want Individual Support
You’d like to work one-on-one with a psychotherapist as you build practical ADHD skills.
Not sure whether an ADHD Incubator program is right for you?
During the 12 weeks, you’ll complete six ADHD educational video lessons and attend six individual psychotherapy sessions. The alternating format gives you time to learn, practice strategies, and discuss what is working or getting in the way.
A Structured 12-Week Program With Individual Support
WHAT TO EXPECT
12 Weeks
A structured timeframe for learning, practicing strategies, and discussing how they fit into your daily life.
6 Educational Video Lessons
Each lesson covers ADHD topics and introduces practical strategies you can try between sessions.
6 Individual Psychotherapy Sessions
You’ll meet one-on-one with your psychotherapist to discuss challenges, adapt strategies to your needs, and get individualized support as you put them into practice.
EMOTIONAL REGULATION
When Emotions Feel Harder to Manage
ADHD can make feelings like anxiety, frustration, anger, or sadness feel stronger, and it can be harder to pause before reacting. Our Emotional Regulation Program is a 12-week treatment program designed to help you understand your emotional patterns and develop practical ways to respond to difficult emotions.
A small setback can sometimes feel overwhelming.
This May Be a Good Fit If…
Emotions Can Escalate Quickly
Small frustrations or disappointments can sometimes lead to much bigger emotional reactions than you expect.
You React Before You Have Time to Pause
Strong emotions might make you react on impulse, shut down, or respond in ways you wish you could change afterward.
Hard feelings can show up out of nowhere and get in the way of your relationships, responsibilities, or daily life.
Anxiety or Sadness Can Feel Overwhelming
You're looking for practical ways to understand what triggers strong emotions and how to respond with more awareness and control.
You Want Better Ways to Handle Emotional Triggers
What You’ll Work On
You’ll learn to understand your emotional patterns and find practical ways to handle tough emotions with more awareness and purpose.
You'll learn to recognize what may trigger feelings like anxiety, frustration, fear, anger, or sadness, and begin noticing patterns in how you react.
Understand Your Emotional Triggers
You'll learn practical ways to handle situations that leave you feeling overwhelmed, wanting to avoid things, or reacting on impulse, with an emphasis on responding more thoughtfully.
Manage Difficult Emotions
Build Emotional Resilience
You'll practise skills that focus on staying present, understanding your reactions, and responding to difficult situations in everyday life.
READY TO START EMOTIONAL REGULATION?
Build Skills for Managing Difficult Emotions
This 12-week program helps you understand your emotional patterns and find practical ways to handle anxiety, frustration, fear, anger, and sadness.
Over 12 weeks, you’ll alternate between educational lessons and individual psychotherapy sessions.
12 Weeks
Six payments of $316 CAD, charged every two weeks over the 12-week program.
$1,896 Total
The program includes six ADHD educational video lessons, six individual psychotherapy sessions, practical tools to support learning and application, and a private summary and strategy session with Dr. Murray.
What’s Included
Not ready to purchase? Book a free phone consultation.
HABITS PROGRAM
When Starting Is the Hardest Part
But twenty minutes later, you’re still looking at a blank screen. This isn’t about willpower. For some people with ADHD, getting started can be just as difficult as finishing. The Habits Program is a 12-week treatment program designed to help you figure out what’s really holding you back and create routines that work in real life.
You know the task. You've even sat down to do it.
This May Be a Good Fit If…
You may know what needs to be done but still struggle to begin, especially when a task feels overwhelming, unclear, or difficult to organize.
Getting Started Feels Hard
Procrastination Keeps Taking Over
You put things off until the pressure builds, then find yourself rushing, catching up, or struggling to finish.
Organization, planning, and keeping up with responsibilities can turn seemingly simple tasks into much bigger projects.
Everyday Tasks Feel Overwhelming
You Have Trouble Following Through
You may start with good intentions but struggle to maintain routines, complete tasks, or consistently use the systems you create.
What You’ll Work On
Understand the patterns that contribute to procrastination and task paralysis, and develop practical strategies for getting started, staying organized, and following through more consistently.
Get Unstuck and Start Tasks
Figure out what leads to task paralysis and procrastination, and try out strategies that help you turn your intentions into action.
Build More Effective Systems
Find simple ways to plan, organize, and manage your work that fit easily into your daily routine.
Strengthen Follow-Through
Learn how to keep up your momentum, finish tasks, and set routines you can stick with even after the program ends.
READY TO START THE HABITS PROGRAM
This 12-week program helps you tackle procrastination, task paralysis, and difficulty following through. You’ll learn practical systems for getting started, staying organized, and following through.
Build Systems That Make It Easier to Get Things Done
Over 12 weeks, you’ll alternate between educational lessons and individual psychotherapy sessions.
12 Weeks
Six payments of $316 CAD, charged every two weeks over the 12-week program.
$1,896 Total
What’s Included
The program includes six ADHD educational video lessons, six individual psychotherapy sessions, practical tools to support learning and application, and a private summary and strategy session with Dr. Murray.
Not ready to purchase? Book a free phone consultation.
Want to Learn More About ADHD Treatment Options?
ADHD treatment may involve medication, therapy, behavioral strategies, coaching, and structured support. To find out more about the research behind these methods and how they can work together, check out our guide to ADHD treatment options for adults.
QUESTIONS ABOUT THE PROGRAM?
Frequently Asked Questions
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Each program runs for 12 weeks. You alternate between an educational video lesson one week and an individual psychotherapy session the next, giving you time to learn, try the strategies in your daily life, and discuss what is working or getting in the way.
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Emotional Regulation focuses on understanding and managing emotions such as frustration, anxiety, anger, and sadness. The Habits Program focuses on procrastination, getting started, planning, organization, routines, and follow-through. Some people may benefit from one program, while others may choose to complete both at different times.
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We offer a free 15-minute phone consultation to discuss what you are having difficulty with and help you determine which program may be the better starting point.
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Each program runs for 12 weeks, with six educational video lessons and six individual psychotherapy sessions.
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Each program includes six ADHD educational video lessons, six individual psychotherapy sessions, practical tools to support learning and application, and a private summary and strategy session with Dr. Murray.
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Each program costs $1,896 CAD, divided into six payments of $316 charged every two weeks over the 12-week program.
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Yes. The educational video lessons are completed online, and individual psychotherapy sessions take place virtually every two weeks throughout the program.
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After you purchase a program, you’ll receive information about the next steps, including completing your paperwork and scheduling your first individual session.
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No. A formal ADHD diagnosis is not required to participate in either program. If you're unsure whether ADHD may be contributing to the difficulties you're experiencing, DRCCH also offers ADHD assessment services.
READY TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP?
Ready to Choose a Program?
Both programs provide 12 weeks of structured ADHD education and individual psychotherapy. Choose the area you would like to focus on, or book a free phone consultation if you’re not sure where to begin.
Not sure which program is right for you? Book a free phone consultation.